Rabbi Sender Haber

Rabbi, Monsey, NY

Getting Started

Last year I had the privilege of traveling to Israel to attend the wedding of my brother Shalom and his wife Deena. I was honored to speak briefly at the wedding meal and shared the following words: In Tehillim (84), King David speaks of Israel and particularly of the...

Articulation – The Language of Prayer

One of the most difficult aspects of Tefillah is language. Why do we always say the same words? Why do they need to be in Hebrew? The truth is that both of these questions have simple answers. We can pray with any words we want and in every language we want. In fact,...

Because I Love You

When Yaacov first met Rachel he cried. The Medrash says that he cried because he would not be buried with her. Before his death, Yaacov apologized to Yosef for not burying Rachel in Me’aras Hamachpeila. He had buried her by the side of the road outside Beis Lechem. He...

Mechilas Yosef

I had occasion to visit the Naval Medical Center in Portsmouth this week. It was not very hard to get in, but there was serious security and I did need to prove to them that I belonged there. As soon as I was cleared by security, I entered and noted a very large...

Regards From Down Under

With report cards due this week I realized with chagrin that, once again, my Middle School students had achieved straight A’s. Where is my bell curve? Where are my weak kids? Why don’t my students dread their weekly tests? The answer lies in an email that I received...